To change our dilemma is to practice. It is not something we can achieve in a few weeks or months.
By changing our mind, we can get out of trouble. Doing this with a firm heart, compassion and a broad mind, and integrating them into life and developing new habits, we can overcome difficulties and experience true happiness.
We often take for granted what we have, the people around us, for example, our parents, brothers, sisters, and friends, forgetting to cherish, and be grateful for them. Such a habit will not give us blessings. Instead, by being grateful, we can accumulate fortune and happiness!
My teacher (Kyabje Pema Dzogchen Kalsang Rinpoche) says "While we have this life, we should do something useful with it".
"I do wish to help other people, but sometimes they can have a lot of resistance."